Behavioral

  • Lack of trust, social isolation and lack of friendships
  • Nightmares
  • Abrupt changes in behavior or personality
  • Agression
  • “Flashbacks”
  • Acts of self-mutilation or self-injury
  • Suicidal thoughts or attempts
  • Excessive crying
  • Truancy or “Runaway” behavior
  • Over compliance or submissive behavior
  • Temper tantrums
  • School problems such as sudden drop in grades or participation

Emotional

  • Self-hate
  • Obsessive ideas and thoughts
  • Regression to younger development stage
  • Lack of affect
  • Depression and/or withdrawal
  • Anxiety, fear and irritability
  • Low self-esteem
  • Feelings of helplessness
  • Excessive guilt
  • Phobias

Sexual/Physical

  • Fatigue and/or exhaustion
  • Enuresis (wetting of pants or the bed)
  • Encopresis (soiling of pants)
  • Drastic changes in appetite
  • Sleep disturbances
  • Hypervigilance
  • Increased startle response
  • Avoidance of touch
  • Reluctance to undress in normal settings
  • Excessive masturbatory behavior
  • Detailed and age-inappropriate knowledge of sexual activity
  • Sexualized play with self or others
  • Attempts to touch genitals or “private areas” of others (child and/or adult)

The American Academy of Pediatrics also reports the following are also common behavior changes in victims of child sexual abuse:

  • Noticeable fear of a person or certain places
  • Unusual or unexpected response from the child when asked if he or she was touched by someone
  • Unreasonable fear of a physical exam
  • Drawings that show sexual acts
  • Abrupt changes in behavior, such as bedwetting or losing control of the bowels
  • Sudden awareness of genitals and sexual acts and words
  • Attempting to get other children to perform sexual acts